By Matata Mercy
Have you ever wondered how women truly look at sex?
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One time a friend of mine asked me this thought provoking question about how I think women look at sex. Is it the same way we men look at it(sex)?
The truth of the matter is that the way women look at sex is completely different from the way men look at it.
For the case of us men, our stimulation is visual.
We like to look at the sexy thighs, round bums and succulent boobs of women before our dongles can shoot up at ninety degrees.
But for the women visual will not do that, it takes more work than just seeing things on display.
Today I will share with you some tips that can help you understand women's thoughts about sex.
1.For women, sex begins in the mind.
While most men think that sex is just about removing clothes and getting into action,for women it is actually the opposite.
Instead of just getting the clothes off and starting things, you have to first stimulate the mind of this woman so that she is ready for the sexual act.
How do you stimulate the mind of a woman?
You can do this by practicing some acts of kindness to her like preparing some cold juice for her on a hot day and hold her in your arms so that she can feel relaxed.
Then reveal your intimate thoughts to her, tell her the things you want to do to her. Tell her how nice she looks in that outfit.
All these acts will stimulate her mind and make her ready for the sexual act.
2.On the side of women, sex is love.
Most men can actually have sex with any woman even the women that they are not in love. What men actually seek for is sexual satisfaction.
That is why men can pay prostitutes for sex and after the act they walk away without any feelings of attachment to that woman.
For the case of women, they would like to give up sex to only one man that they are truly attracted to and the one that they actually love. So women look at sex as a gift of love.
To them, no love no sex. Women look at sex as an act of love.
Having sex with someone that they do not love is a hard nut to crack.
This is true for most women but of course there is an exception for the women who turn into prostitutes, for these their motivation for the act is clear, money. 💰
3.For women,sex is also a mix of situations.
Yes, while for men, it's all about the act irrespective of how you have been feeling some hours ago. For the women, it is the opposite.
For a woman to have some good sex with you everything should be in place.
You cannot annoy her or argue with her all day and at night, you expect this woman to open her thighs for you. She can't, I bet you.
Everything must be in place, keep her in good mood, laugh with her by cracking jokes and fulfill her needs.
She will be ready to give you the things that you desire most from her.
4. For women, sex happens at a great timing.
Truth be told, a woman cannot just have sex anytime and anywhere.
When a woman is stressed and worried, her mind cannot be roaming about and thinking sex.
Therefore, for great and memorable sex to happen between a man and a woman, she must feel relaxed and the environment must be right.
The place where sex will happen must be protected from roaming eyes.
This could be a hotel, lodge or some hidden place where the expression of love can easily happen.
I hope these tips help you to understand the sexual minds of women. Good luck. 😍👩❤️💋👩
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