By Matata Mercy
One way of improving your social relationships is to make the people that you want to build relationships with to feel good.
One thing that i find shocking is that for most people that want to improve their social lives, this is something hard for them to do.
Most of these people think you need to first work on yourself before trying to make other people feel good or even approach them.
They think you need to go to the gym and build some muscles if you are slim before you approach people for relationships.
Most especially when you are approaching the opposite sex.
For example if a man is to approach a woman, he might think that he needs to build some six pack before approaching that beautiful woman or else he will face rejection.
Other people think that you need to make lots of money before entering into a relationship.
The truth of the matter is that all these things don't matter. What matters is looking at the other person's opinion.
Ask what you need to do to make the other person feel good.
For example you could ask your girlfriend or wife what you can do for her to make her feel good.
If she responds positively and asks for a maasage, just give her a good sensual massage and she will feel good and your love bond will be strengthened.
Don't try to work on your muscles or make more money to make others feel good. Give them what they want. Good luck.
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