By Matata Mercy
Human beings need to enjoy the sense of touch. I love touching other people especially with their consent. There are various forms of touch this could be hugs, kisses or cuddling.
I love and enjoy all these kinds of touches. I know there are people out there who would also love to enjoy cuddling in abundance but they are caught up by fear of inviting others to come and cuddle with them. They fear that they will be rejected.
Today i would like to share with you some of the tips that i have used to bring cuddling in abundance into my life.
One thing is that in order for you to cuddle more often, you will need to hangout with more cuddle friendly people. Spending more time with people who love the art of cuddling will give you the vibe to do it more often.
Ensure that you spend less time with people who avoid touches. There are people out there who do not like to be touched or who do not like touching others, kick these people out of your social circle and look for those who are seeking adventure in touch.
Ask for advice from people who like to hug and cuddle. You will pick up some good skills for touch from them. At first it will appear like they have skills and experiences that are beyond your reach but if you are willing to be patient and learn.
Sooner or later you will be good at it. Just start hugging and try to get feedback from the hugger types.
One thing you can do is invite people through social media, text, and emails to come and cuddle with you. Here are some examples of cuddle invites.
Me: You look like you love cuddling.
Her. Yes, i do.
Me: We can do it sometime if you want to.
Her: Sure
Me: How about now?
Her: Okay.
Of course this conversation comes after you have shared some laughs in some other conversations. When you take it too serious you might invite a gentle no cuddle from the person.
Keep the conversation light, fun and friendly. If you are having a conversation about business or work it will look pretty awkward to ask to be cuddled out of the blue. the key is not to give up.
It may take years but keeping at it will help you to reap great results. Good luck.
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