LIVING IN DESPAIR

By Matata Mercy

What will you do when everything around you seems to just go wrong and you are in a situation where you feel like you do not have any control anymore?

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If you find yourself in a situation where your life looks hopless, you literally have no hope in life then it means that you are actually living in despair.

When you are living in despair, you will find that you might not have all the luxuries that you desire.

 You might not even have the basic needs of life meaning food, water and shelter are all luxury to you. People who are homeless and find themselves sleeping on the streets are actaully living in despair.

But i do hope that it is very possible for you to move out of the place of despair and live your dreams. When you find yourself in such a situation, in most cases you will feel helpless and very needy.

 All this helplessness and neediness is an attitude thing and your attitude is the tool that you should actually use to help you get out of this kind of situation.

It is true that being broke and not being able to meet the basics like food, water and shelter can be a painful experience but you can still use your mind to start looking at the brighter side of things when you are in that pit of despair.

 Thinking positively will help you make a lot of progress even when you cannot be able to feed yourself and you are just surviving at the mercy and goodwill of others.

When you are broke and in debt, it will seem like the whole world is against you and everything that you believed in is crumbling but you should realize that it is only you who actually does have the power to turn things around easily.

You might be lacking the basic needs, you should realize that you actually have the time to do alot of things. You can sing or write.

 You can also take a walk at least even without any coin in your pocket.  If you can be able to do these things with completely an empty bank account and empty pockets it means that you actually still have the freedom to do a lot of things even when you are in the pit of despair.

 I urge you to focus your energies on the positive things in life even when you are going through a hard time. Tough times never last but tough people do.

Very soon, you will get out of that situation and be able to change things around and enjoy the life that you have always dreamt of doing.

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