WHAT KIND OF RELATIONSHIP ARE YOU ENGAGED IN?

By Matata Mercy

Human beings are social beings and love to stay and live in communities and societies.

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By nature as humans, associating with each other just flows like blood in our veins and any human being who is not able to interact with fellow humans is always considered an outcast or someone who is mentally suffering and will most likely need to some help form somewhere.

Since we all do interact with one another in one way or another then it simply means that the way we actually interact also varies from one person to another.

If you are in a love relationship between a man and a woman, you cannot possibly act the same way as a relationship between a father and a daughter.

 For the case of a father and a daughter, the relationship is most likely platonic and there is no any kind of intimacy like kissing or inappropriate touches in the sexual organs.

While for the man and woman, the relationship will actually involve alot of deep kissing and also romantic touches and interaction of sexual organs with it. If we take a look at the interaction between a man and a woman what kinds of relationship actually do exist?

 How do each of the parties involved in the relationship actually behave in the relationship with one another. In some relationships, you will find that the woman is actually in it for the money and nothing else.

I have a friend who claims to be in love with  a woman who always calls him when she is facing some financial problems, iam not saying that helping each other with financial issues in a relationship is bad but i do believe that there is a limit to where the finances should actually stop.

If the woman who claims to be in love with you only calls you for money but cannot even call you to find out how you are doing, how your night was, then you should evaluate the kind of relationship you actually are in.

This woman is just after your money and not the love  that you are supposed to share with her.  In other relationships, you will find that the man is actually interested in one thing and that is just hitting it, what we shall call in plain language sex. 

What some people out there actually call lust. People claim that lust is different from love but i actually doubt it, i just think that lust is just a form of love depending on what people expect out of that kind of love.

You can engage in a kind of relationship which is purely about sex or in a relationship which is sexless between a man and a woman who are not related in anyway. What kind of relationship are you willing to engage in?

Think about those relationships you are in before you are actually able to commit for the long haul in order for you to be able minimize your regrets.

 If you are enjoying your relationships, then that is fine and okay but if you are not then you will need to think twice before you commit.

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