WHAT DO OTHER PEOPLE THINK ABOUT YOU?

By Matata Mercy

Are you the kind of person who is always worried about what other people are thinking about you?

You shouldn't let other people's opinions affect what you do in ...

You actually are not alone because iam very aware of the fact that there are very many other people out there who are eqaully also worried about what others do think about them.

The truth of the matter is that you should not waste your precious time worrying about what other people are actually thinking about you. What matters most is how you actually think about yourself and what you truly believe about you.

When you spend more time worrying about what others are thinking about you, you will actually be wasting alot of energy thinking about others who are actually caring more about themselves and what they are planning to do than about you.

 Many people are more preoccupied with their lives to even give some little time to have some thoughts about you.

Instead of spending your precious time worrying about the thoughts of others, you should focus your attention on yourself and the things that you would like to achieve, your passions and the things that do make you feel alive.

The thoughts of other people are just thoughts and they can do nothing much in your life, they do not have any tangible effect on your actions.

When you stop worrying about others and what they think about you, then you are actually empowering yourself.

You will be building your self-confidence and also you will actually become a role model for others out there who have been held back by the thoughts of others.

 When you are planning to start a new endeavour like starting a new business, or build a new relationship, people will talk and others might discourage you by telling you that you are going to fail terribly.

The truth of the matter is that you will fail and you are actually supposed to fail. Failure is required if you do want to succeed massively.

You should allow yourself to be human since human beings actually fail, you will learn more from your failures than you actually will from being in your comfortzone.

You should learn to be ok with failure. You should get used to failing and make it your friend since failure is actually not the opposite of success but instead it is an integral part of success.

You should understand that it is absolutely okay  for you to start a new business and then see it go up in flames before your eyes, it is also okay for you to ask a woman out on a date and she turns you down right before your friends and employees.

All these experiences of failure will help you learn and make better choices the next time to you attempt to do something similar, you will be more wiser and also more intelligent and ready to achieve the success that you desire.

You should be able to learn your capabilities and the things that you are able to accomplish. You will not be able to know that unless you are willing to put yourself out there and try things out yourself irrespective of what others say.

Many people will think that you are crazy, but allow them to think so just focus on trying things out. Have faith in yourself and that's what matters and that's what will make your dreams manifest.

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