CHOOSING FRIENDS AND CHOOSING WELL

By Matata Mercy

In life, friends are important and without friends, the world looks like an island and it will actually become very boring.

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When we choose our friends well, we will most likely progress in life and if we are in a bad company of friends, then all things around us will most likely go wrong without us even realising it. What kind of friends are you going to be with? 

The kinds of friends that i would love to be with are the ones who will most likely add value to me and not those who will make my life hard.

There is a saying that  tell me your friends and i will tell you who you actually are. I do think that this kind of thought is right.

If you are a drunkard, you will usually be surrounded by a group of drunkards and if you smoke, you will be with your fellow smokers.

You should actually mind the kind of company that you keep simply because if your company is bad, you will also become bad quickly. They say that bad company corrupts good morals and this ultimately true and it is actually a fact without any discussion.

When you are choosing your friends, you need to put into place some factors to consider before you can make them your friends. The things that you will gain out of their friendship not just friends whom you engage in gossip with.

 It is a good idea for you to choose friends whom you can be able to learn from. Learn things that can help you move foward towards your desired goals and dreams.

For example, you could befriend someone who knows how to play guitar if you actually would like to learn how to play a guitar.

 When you have friends who make you grow by teaching you new skills, you will most likely progress in life but if you have friends from whom you do not learn anything, then you will just stagnate in life.

When you are friends with drunkards, the reward will be getting tipsy and empting your pockets with money but if you have guitarists as your friends, you will gain an audience and may be even make money along the way.

Therefore, what kinds of friends are you going to have? Whatever friends you have, make sure that you choose them well.

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