HOW TO CONTROL FEARS THAT KEEP YOU FROM BEING HAPPY

 By Matata Mercy

Everyone of us has fears and it keeps most of us away from doing the things that we would have done easily if we gained the courage to move past those fears. 

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Some form of instinctive fear is good for us because it will most likely protect us from some bad things that could happen to us.

Too much  fear that over rules is very disastrous as it can cripple your progress in life and stop you from achieving the goals that you have set for yourself in life. How can you possibly be able to control and deal with this kind of fear that can damage our life?

 It will take alot of character and a strong state of mind to do that. Today iam going to offer you some of the tips that will help you get out of fear and enjoy happiness in your life while you achieve your desired goals.

Here are some tips that will help you control your fears and live a fulfilling life.

1. Always accept and then observe your fears closely

 Life is not a perfect affair and the truth of the matter is that we are bound to face fears in our daily lives.

In these circumstances, the first step you need to take is to accept that you are fearful and then you can closely observe the fear to see what exactly is that which you are fearing, whether it actually makes sense or it's just something that is pulling away your attention from the things that you would like to accomplish.

2. Ensure that you  understand the reason why the emotion of fear is over you

 If you have been able to accept and successfully observe this fear, it is now time for you to dig up the roots of this fear and why it is taking up alot of your mind and time.

If you can be able to understand the root of your fear, then you will most likely be able to find out a solution that can help you to also overcome this fear easily.

You can keep a journal that can help you to keep your thoughts, emotions and also your progress and might also help you to easily notice certain patterns when you are engulfed by fear.

3. Do not allow fear to control you

Living in fear is a terrible thing since fear has the power to control your life and also cripple all the decisions that you make since all of them will be made only based on fear and nothing else. Therefore  fear has the power to chain your freedom.

 Is there away that you can be able to control fear? The only way you can control fear is to change your state of mind or mindset and also your belief system.

People who have been taken over by fear do believe that they are weak and that they are actually not good enough.

When you start believing that you strong enough and can overcome anything, you will be ready to face your fears and it will surely depart away from you.

4. Look at fear as a challenge to become a better person

Fear is a powerful emotion that can either help you or just tear you apart depending on how you are able to perceive it.

Most people believe that we should hide from our fears and that we stop stop people from knowing about our fears since they will just end up  having a pity for us.

But on the other way round, you can look at fear as a chance for you to improve yourself and become a better human being.  Use fear as a challenge to help you to become a wiser and also a better person.

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