By Matata Mercy
Your life will not get better by chance but it will get better by change.
There is no one in this world who exists and doesnot have any goals or dreams or atleast the desire to have somethings and this could be acquiring wealth or raising a happy family.
In most cases success seems very near and yet it is very far from us each and every time we try to move towards it.
This makes us feel like failures, humiliated and also disappointed with ourselves and efforts. There are some reasons that always leave us feeling like failures and also disappointed with our lives.
Here are some tips that will help you to get a little bit closet towards the things that you desire to achieve in your life.
1. You should know what you want
If you do not know what you want, then any road will absolutely take you there. Most times we do fail simply because out goals are too broad and general, there are no specifics in what we actually aim to achieve. For example you cannot just say you want to be rich or successful.
This is not actually defined. Success might mean something else to each and everyone of us.
But what if you said, you want to build your own business by the age of 30 or you would like to have finished writing your book by the end of this year.
When you have plan, it will be easy to execute that plan and the only way to have a good plan is to know where exactly you want to end up.
2. You should believe in yourself
Many times we feel that our goals are actually out of our league and we cannot be able to achieve them but the truth of the matter is that what we do lack is the belief and nothing else.
Some times we believe that we are not oka for dreaming about goals that we may not be able to achieve.
We think we do not have the skills and the knowledge required to execute those goals but we are actually just lying to ourselves and nothing else.
If you lack the skills and knowledge, you can always acquire them or you can hire someone will those skills to help you execute your dreams and bring them to life.
Believing in yourself is the most important thing that can happen to you and help you achieve your goals.
3. Start seeing yourself as the person that you would like to become
How we see ourselves and also our self-image will ultimately determine our success. If you know what you want to achieve, then you should identify one person that is successful in the field that you have chosen and start seeing yourself as that person.
You should start seeing yourself in your mind succeeding each and everyday at what you would like to achieve.
This helps you to challenge the comfort of the status quo and push you to achieve your goals and dreams.
A goal which is properly set has been half-way reached.
Your life will not get better by chance but it will get better by change.
There is no one in this world who exists and doesnot have any goals or dreams or atleast the desire to have somethings and this could be acquiring wealth or raising a happy family.
In most cases success seems very near and yet it is very far from us each and every time we try to move towards it.
This makes us feel like failures, humiliated and also disappointed with ourselves and efforts. There are some reasons that always leave us feeling like failures and also disappointed with our lives.
Here are some tips that will help you to get a little bit closet towards the things that you desire to achieve in your life.
1. You should know what you want
If you do not know what you want, then any road will absolutely take you there. Most times we do fail simply because out goals are too broad and general, there are no specifics in what we actually aim to achieve. For example you cannot just say you want to be rich or successful.
This is not actually defined. Success might mean something else to each and everyone of us.
But what if you said, you want to build your own business by the age of 30 or you would like to have finished writing your book by the end of this year.
When you have plan, it will be easy to execute that plan and the only way to have a good plan is to know where exactly you want to end up.
2. You should believe in yourself
Many times we feel that our goals are actually out of our league and we cannot be able to achieve them but the truth of the matter is that what we do lack is the belief and nothing else.
Some times we believe that we are not oka for dreaming about goals that we may not be able to achieve.
We think we do not have the skills and the knowledge required to execute those goals but we are actually just lying to ourselves and nothing else.
If you lack the skills and knowledge, you can always acquire them or you can hire someone will those skills to help you execute your dreams and bring them to life.
Believing in yourself is the most important thing that can happen to you and help you achieve your goals.
3. Start seeing yourself as the person that you would like to become
How we see ourselves and also our self-image will ultimately determine our success. If you know what you want to achieve, then you should identify one person that is successful in the field that you have chosen and start seeing yourself as that person.
You should start seeing yourself in your mind succeeding each and everyday at what you would like to achieve.
This helps you to challenge the comfort of the status quo and push you to achieve your goals and dreams.
A goal which is properly set has been half-way reached.
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