THE BASIC MINDSETS THAT WILL CHANGE OUR LIVES FOR THE BETTER



In one of the greatest commencement speeches that has ever been given, Debbie Millman said that if you imagine less, less will be what you undoubtedly deserve. 

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She continued her speech by saying that do what you love and do not stop until you get what you love. 

Work as hard as you can. This kind of thinking is actually what modern psychology believes our own beliefs in our abilities and potentials   will help shape our behaviour and also help predict our success.

 According to Stanford psychologist Carol Dweck who carried out some research on the power of our beliefs which are both conscious and unconscious, believes that changing the simplest things in our lives can have very big effects on our lives. 

Carol Dweck realised that one of the critical things about us is how we carry ourselves around  and  what we actually take to be our personality. 

She suggests that there are actually  two kinds of mindsets that every human being possesses.  There is the fixed mindset and the growth mindset. 

A person with a fixed mindset will always  think about proving to others how intelligent or knowledgeable he is. With a fixed mindset, you will assume you have already arrived and need no more growth. 

If you have a growth mindset, you will not mind about making mistakes and trying new things. 

This mindset believes in new opportunities to learn more and improve your skills and become better each and everyday. 

This kind of mindset has been adopted by the best creative people in our society. If we can embrace growth mindsets and dump fixed mindsets, we can become the better versions of ourselves.

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