REASONS WHY SOME PEOPLE FAIL IN LIFE AND HOW TO AVOID THE PITFALLS OF FAILURE


Have you ever wondered why some people become very successful in life and while others just get by and survive for another day? Well, I have also been having the same kind of thoughts for a very long period of time. 

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Today I would like to analyse and look at some of those critical factors that may determine the success of a human being in life. Some of these factors you might have come across some of them while others will still be a stranger to you. 

Today, let’s dive into the top reasons why people out there may fail to become successful in life and also give some solutions to them so that they will pick themselves out of the gutters and become better humans who are chasing and achieving their dreams and goals.

If you do not have a well defined purpose in life

Ideally, I do believe that every human being must have a well defined purpose for his life. If you do not know your life’s purpose and do not even endeavour to discover it through various ways, you will most likely end up a failure in life. 

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You can discover your life purpose by immersing yourself into different activities that look interesting to you and you would love to get into them. 

Through trying out the different activities in life, you will most certainly discover your life purpose some day.

 Something that you are actually very passionate about and actually do care deeply about is your life purpose.  

In the modern day, our professions have actually become our life purpose but I do deeply disagree with this notion simply because some people end up in some professions that actually they are not passionate about but just because they are qualified enough to get into the university and pursue those professions and such kinds of people might actually be having different passions in their lives and most importantly their life purpose.

Most people lack ambitions in life

If you are going to get ahead in life, you will most certainly need to have great ambitions in life.  

There is a saying that if you fail to shoot the stars, you will most certainly land on the moon.

 If you are out there trying to see what you can aim at, you better aim at shooting the stars so that if you miss your target, you will most likely end up on the moon which is actually not a bad place to be in. 

What iam trying to say here is that if you want to become successful in life you must set goals for yourself.  

Sometimes the goals that we set might look impossible to achieve but it’s better to aim at those goals so that you will end up in a good place if things actually do not work out a you actually expected.

 According to the founder of Google, Larry page, you must always have a disregard for the impossible. People who are ambitious will most likely achieve something extra ordinary in life. 

So if you are out there and are planning to become a candidate for success, you better start dreaming big like Elon Musk or Richard Branson.

 Insufficient Education

 Most people believe that if you graduate from College, you have attained education.

 In theory it might be true for them but I do disagree simply because there are very many people who have succeeded in life without ever attending college or dropping out. 

The people who are going to be successful are not the ones with college degrees but the ones who call themselves self-made. In other words these are people who have learnt how to get where they actually want to go in their own ways. 

I can as well say these are people who obtained specific knowledge and used that knowledge to help them get ahead in life.  That explains the numerous college drop outs who have changed out world.

Self discipline is important in the life of a human being


If you can discipline yourself, you are a good candidate for conquering the world. 

Self discipline is one of the most important aspects of success in the life of a human being. Self-mastery is the hardest job for any human being and it makes sense why most people have actually become their greatest enemies. 

If you want to become successful begin with disciplining yourself before you can even look around you who to discipline.

Procrastination

The biggest enemy of most humans is procrastination.

 If you are always postponing every activity that you are supposed to do or carry out, then my friend you are actually living dangerously and you will need to find better ways of accomplishing your goals and ideas quickly before it is actually too late.

 Procrastination might blind your eyes but time will never actually wait for you. 

You should learn to motivate yourself and start doing what you actually want to do with the tools that you have right now. That’s the best way to beat procrastination otherwise your dream will just be that a dream.

Poor spending habits

 If your spending habits are wanting, you will most likely end up a failure in life.  if you cannot save a portion of your income for tomorrow or the next investment, then you are actually living dangerously. You will need to start learning how to save.

 You will need to keep aside at least 10% of your income so that you can invest it to help you generate more money but otherwise your success will be next to impossible. Successful people have learnt how to save their money and make it grow.

 That’s what you should actually learn if you are going to conquer this world.

Persistence is one of the most important factors that will determine success of a human being


If you are able to persevere in very many issues around your life then you will most likely become very successful in life. 

Persistence is the key to beating failure and becoming victorious in your life’s endeavours. 

If you are willing to become very successful in life then you will most likely have to be able to become very persistent with hard situations and things that may affect your progress in life.  

people who are going to succeed in life will most likely be the ones who can persevere and keep moving forward.

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