HOW TO STAY MOTIVATED WHEN YOU HAVE BEEN REJECTED

There is a very common scenario in life that we all actually do face and that is rejection. There is no one in this world who has never been rejected, that I do know and Iam very confident about. 

If you have never faced any rejection, than it means you are not doing enough in your life or you are just waiting for life to take you in any direction that it desires to. 

But if you truly want to get ahead in life, you will and you must actually face rejection in life. 

Anybody can face rejection and this can occur in any field in life. You might be rejected by a beautiful woman when you actually want to marry her or you can be rejected by an employer when you try to apply for a job or if you are in business, a customer might refuse to actually buy some of your products or services.

 Rejection hurts a lot and some people in this world try to play it safe so that they can avoid it. 

But the truth of the matter is in order for you to achieve something in this life, you must get used to rejection and you should be able to become comfortable with people telling you no or we do not actually need your service or product.

 If you learn to stay motivated even in times when you are facing rejection, you will likely become very successful in life and achieve your goals in life. 

Today I will give you some tips on how you can continue to stay motivated in the face of rejection.

You should be able to learn from your mistakes

Many times when we are rejected, we feel hurt and it’s like life is not working out well for us. 

We feel like there is nothing good that we can actually do in this life. 

In my own opinion and perspective, we should be able to take rejection as a lesson for us to help improve ourselves, skills and the products or services that we are developing for the consumers out there. 

If we can learn from our mistakes and are able to accept our weaknesses and challenges, we will be able to become better versions of ourselves and one day those same people who actually rejected us will come back calling at us. So the lesson is take rejection as a learning platform.

You should focus on the prize and nothing else

If you can focus your efforts and mind onto the prize, you will be able to achieve your goal in the long run. 

You should develop the motivation to help you want more that which you actually set out to achieve in your life than never before after you have been rejected.

 In life it is not what happens to you that matters but actually how you do respond to those changes that carries more weight. 

The truth of the matter is that your response to the challenges in life will determine whether you become successful in life or you actually become a failure in life. 

If the pressure of rejection is too much for you to bear, you should just take some time off and cool down and try to re-evaluate yourself and also appreciate your achievements in life. 

This will help you to stop focusing on your stumbles and falls instead of focusing on your achievements.

You should not take the rejections that you are faced with personal

Sometimes when we face rejection, we feel like we will never be good at anything but that is not actually the case. 

Being rejected does not mean that you cannot do anything in this life or that you are useless in life. 

If you start developing the feelings of being useless in life, I guarantee you that you will develop low self-esteem issues and this will completely kill your motivation and you will fail not achieve any goal in your life or you will just start undermining the goals that you actually initially achieved in your life.

 You should learn to avoid taking rejections personally so that you will be able to keep your confidence and keep moving your most important goals in life.  

You must know that in order for you to be successful in life, you must believe in yourself even before others can actually believe in you. Believing in yourself will help you match forward even if other people do not believe in your idea or what you actually want to do. 

Believing in yourself is important and that will only be possible if you stop undermining your capabilities and potentials to achieve extraordinary things in life.

You should never give up on your dreams

The most successful people in the world have gone through failures and disappointments before they reached on top of their success. Few people have actually attained extraordinary success by just trying out something once. 

The truth is that very many people who have become very successful in different fields is because they have tried very many times.

 You should learn that the more times you try doing something, you are giving yourself more chances to actually become very successful at what you are doing and you will become very fulfilled in life when you are able to attain that success that you have actually been yearning for. 

When you give up it means that you no longer believe in your capabilities and that strengths. 

If you give up it actually means that you are not also willing to learn from your mistakes. Instead of giving up, you should carry on with what you are doing and you should also put in more effort and ensure that you avoid the mistakes that you made initially  and you should realise that no one is actually perfect in this world  and that we all stumble and that is absolutely okay in life. 

We cannot avoid rejection completely in our lives but by being able to learn and focusing on what we actually desire and want to do with our lives and not taking any of those rejection as personal and instead pushing on when the going gets tough, we will be able to attain success in our lives some day. To our success in Life.