HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR GAME WITH WOMEN

 By Matata Mercy 

One time  I,with a group of friends were having some drinks at a restaurant near our workplace when a very beautiful woman past by us. 

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This beautiful woman raised the eyebrows of one friend of mine whom I will call Paul for the purpose of this article. 

Paul starred at this woman lustfully and we could clearly see that he actually wanted to launch his manifesto to her.

 But one thing was clear to us who were seated next to him and it was that the fear of being  rejected this woman was stronger than the desire of having her in his bed.

 His fears were that this woman would cause the biggest embarrassment of his life worst still among his own peers by rejecting him publicly. 

And so his strong desires were not fulfilled as fear took over him and he lost the golden opportunity to interact with  this woman.

Today I will share with you some tips on how to improve your game with women.

1.Work on your mindset first.

Being able to talk to women and attract them is first and foremost a game of mindset. 

With the right mindset, you will be able to attract the women that you desire easily and without it, that will be a high mountain to climb. 

In order to win in the game of dating, you need to be comfortable with rejection. 

Being able to accept rejection will be a great tool for you to be able to build your self-esteem and confidence towards.

 No matter how terrible the behaviour that a woman shown you, as a man you need to stay composed and ensure that you are not easily angered or swayed away by her wits.

All this begins with having a strong mindset. What does it mean to have a strong mindset? 

In my own opinion, having a strong mindset simply means not caring about the outcome of an approach. 

Most men out there suffer from what I would call approach anxiety. 

The act of approaching a woman  terrifies their souls yet the desire to spend time with a woman excites them but in the end they chicken out.

 A real man should  not care if a woman accepts his advances or rejects him. 

He should take the interaction with women as just a game. In a video game, when your man does, you press the start button and start firing again. 

With that game mentality, it will be very easy for you to approach women and get their phone numbers or even land some romantic moments with them.

 So, first things first work on your mindset, and other things will follow.

 Seek the kingdom of mindset and other things will follow.

2. Identify your weaknesses and work on them.

Truth be told, we as humans are broken beings.

 We all have weaknesses that we should work on. As men, women can use those weaknesses as advantage to reject us. 

Ultimately killing our dreams of being in a relationship. 

The best thing that a man can do for himself is to work on his weaknesses and seek self-improvement. 

For example when you are poor and have little or no money to your name,and in the worst case scenario you are unemployed and homeless. 

It will be very difficult in the modern day today to get a woman who is willing to become your lover and eventually get married to you.

 Don't feel bad and curse that woman when she rejects you for being broke, truth be told in the world today we need some money in our pockets to buy the necessities like food, water and shelter not excluding the clothes that we put on.

 We are no longer cave men and women surviving on gathered fruits and berries. 

There are bills to pay. So for a man out there seeking a partner for marriage with empty pockets, sorry go work on yourself.

 Get yourself a job and start earning some dollars.

 Soon you will become one of the most desired men in women's circles. Gone are the days of broke men.

 In short, get the money and you will make the rules. It will be easy for you to ask for what you desire. 

Even these days women give out sex to men to have pockets filled with cash. Get the money and the pants will go down.

 If your weakness is communication, that you do not know how to communicate with women, then do the needful. Start small and improve slowly by slowly.

 You can start by talking to any woman or girl that you meet along the way while performing your day to day activities.

 Engage in small talks with women and talk about topics that you are comfortable with and also knowledgeable about. 

This could also be your hobbies like music or art. 

Tell her about the kind of music that you enjoy and also ask her to talk about her tastes in music. 

With time, I guarantee you that you will get better and comfortable around women.

3. Be confident within yourself.

Truth be told, in order to be able to attract women and have fulfilling relationships with them, you will need to become a social being.

 Being social simply means that you should be free to interact and have some conversations with women. 

And to be able to freely talk to women you will need to gather some courage that I would like to call self-confidence. 

When you have self-confidence, you will easily approach a woman that you have been attracted to and  not even bother about whether she will reject you or not. 

If she rejects you, you will not throw any tantrums but just move on to your next target, as the saying there is a lot of fish in the water.

 The more approaches you make, the more confident you will become.

4.Deliberately expose yourself to women.

When you deliberately expose yourself to something, you will be comfortable with it in the long run. 

Now if you are not comfortable around women but you have the desire to be in a relationship and even get laid, the best thing you can do for yourself is to simply get exposure with women. 

You can start by talking to women that you bump into each and everyday. 

For example, when you go shopping and you meet this beautiful woman picking up something at the grocery, ask her why she chose that? 

Before you know it, she will reveal to you a lot about that product and you might also get to know her better or even walk away with her phone number. 

I hope these tips will help you to become better at attracting women. Good luck.👋👋👋😍