By Matata Mercy
Men out there, how do you feel when you are around women?
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Do you feel uneasy like you have been thrown among thorns.
Or you feel marvelous like it is best thing that has happened to you in a while.
If your feelings are the best thing that has happened to you in a while then that's okay.
But if you feel like you have been thrown among thorns when you are around women.
And you want to get an opportunity to escape then you are in the right place.
Today, I will share with you some tips on how you can be confident around women.
1.Give up control.
When you are around women, what you can do is to just give up control.
Do not worry about your looks or even what you are wearing.
In most cases, women do not care about what you are wearing.
When you give up control, you are free to be yourself and also in position to enjoy the company of women properly.
2.Lower the bar of expectations.
When you are going to meet girls or women on a date or an outing, ensure that your expectations for what happens is low.
Do not hope that the conversation that you will have with the women will be perfect.
Expect some hiccups and also some akward moments with the women.
This attitude will help you to be yourself and not be under any kind of pressure.
3. Amuse yourself first
Before meeting women, ensure that you first amuse yourself.
Make yourself happy by doing the things that you love.
If you enjoy sports, go watch a game or if you enjoy playing video games, indulge yourself in it.
Bring joy out of your life.This mood will give you à head start as you prepare yourself to meet the women.
4. Adopt empowering self beliefs about yourself.
What we think about ourselves will ultimately affect our confidence.
What you believe about yourself will turn out to be true.
For example if you believe that you are a shy person, you will turn out to be shy but if you think you are a friendly person who loves making friends,and so will it be.
In order to be in good shape and ready for the women, you need to bring out the best qualities through your belief system.
Believe that you are good enough for the women and you deserve their love.Good luck.
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