By Matata Mercy
Recently a friend of mine was embarrassed when a woman confessed that he tried to kiss her but unfortunately he did not know how to kiss and he got stuck.
This friend of mine came to me to seek for advice on what he could do inorder to kiss a woman properly the next time he was with a woman.
Today, i would like to share with you some tips that i did share with my friend on how to be able to properly kiss a woman so that she will be willing to come back for more.
1.Make sure that the woman has consent.
Before you can excitedly put your lips on her mouth or cheeks, seek approval first from this woman.
If she is interested, then you can proceed and enjoy the kisses.
The biggest question here now is, how do you know that a woman is interested in being kissed by you?
Please before you jump in for a kiss, ensure that she shows you these indicators of interest.
Or else you might find yourself in jail for rape or assault.
You can try to gauge this woman's interest by complementing her.
This is one way you will send a clear message to her that you actually like her.
You tell this woman casually that you like her hair or outfit.
Tell her that you like the way her hairstyle matches with her dress and shoes.
You also can complement her on her personality, tell her that you like her laugh.
You are an intelligent woman is also a simple but nice complement that you can give that woman that you would like to kiss.
Ensure that you complement this woman when you are alone with her so that people around you do not poke fun at you for hitting on her.
2.Make eye contact with this woman and smile at her.
When you lock your eyes with this woman do not divert your gaze like as if you are scared or ashamed for what you are about to do.
Instead keep your eyes on her and then crack a little smile without showing off your teeth.
Smiling and keeping eye contact is the easiest way to give someone a hint that you are interested in them.
If she doesnot like you,you can play it cool and act like you were being nice.
3. Read her body language to see how she is responding.
If you want to know how this woman is responding to your advances, then you need to read her body language.
If she smiles back and maintains eye contact, and then turns away. She probably is interested in you.
If on the other had she furrows her eyebrows and doesnot smile, then she probably is not interested in the kiss.
4.Test the waters by holding her hands or wrap your arms around her.
One way to know if this woman is ready and interested in kissing you is to see if she is willing to hold your hands in hers.
And if she can cuddle your hands,then she could as well give you a nice kiss.
If handholding proves to be difficult, you can just lean up against her and in towards you, then she is interested in the kiss.
5.Seek permission by asking if you can kiss her.
Instead of trying to steal a kiss, ask her if you can kiss her. You can be direct by simply asking 'Can i kiss you?' .
You can decide to be more by saying 'There is nothing else i desire to do than kiss you right now.'
This will send her the message clear and precise.
If she kisses you first, don't seek for her consent. Just enjoy the kiss.
6.Initiate the kiss.
Hold the hands of this woman or put your hands on her shoulders. And turn to face her.
Do not put your arms down, if you do, then she might think you are not emotionally invested in the kiss.
Relax your lips and do not punter them up. It is not a good gesture to push your lips out.
You should keep your lips flexible as you initiate a kiss and also facial muscles relaxed.
There is no one who wants to kiss lips that are hard and stiff.
Ensure that your mouth is closed,kiss her with your lips and not teeth.
Lean in closer with your whole body and pay attention to how the woman is angling her head.
Adjust your head in the opposite direction so that you avoid bumping into her nose as you kiss her.
Keep your head slanted so that your nose will brush against her cheek.
7.Locking lips with the woman.
As soon as you are about to make contact with her lips, close your eyes.
Closing your eyes means you are comfortable with the moment. Keep your eyes closed through out the moment of the kiss.
Hold your lips into this woman's lips for about one to four seconds.
Press your lips against hers without pushing her.
Apply light pressure and embrace her to bring her closer.
Release your lips for a second just to see her body language before you start kissing her again.
If she pulls away, it simply means she is done with kissing for now.
If she leans in,it means she is comfortable and wants to continue kissing.
After kissing her multiple times, change the side that your head has been on.
After 30 seconds, switch the angle that you have been kissing the woman from.
If your nose is resting on the right cheek, switch it to the left. Good luck. And enjoy the kisses.😍
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