HOW TO GET OUT OF THE FRIEND ZONE

 By Matata Mercy

Have you ever been in  relationship with a woman and you believe that she actually loves you and later you are shocked to find out that she is actually your friend? It happens. 

One friend of mine was recently embarrassed by a woman when he tried to kiss her and she pulled away. All along this friend of mine believed that this woman was in love with her but it was all lies. She had already friendzoned him. 

So if you are out there and you have found yourself in the friendzone what do you do? 

Today i will give you some tips on how you can get yourself out of the friendzone and start enjoying the goodies that come with a relationship. Here are some tips on how you can get yourself out of the friend zone.

1. Start touching the woman playfully.

One problem or obstacle that you will face when you are dating  a woman will be when you try to escalate the woman into the lover status and she rejects you. 

This is simply because the woman in question sees you as a friend and not as a lover.  The only way this woman can begin to see you as a potential lover is to start initiating touch on her. Now am not telling you to grab her butt or her boobs. 

 Start with slight touches like holing hands, massaging her back slightly and playfully. She will begin to feel you as a lover and if you see her responding positively, you can then escalate to other levels. 

2. Playfully go out with her

You can playfully take this woman on a date but not officially. Let's say it's almost lunch time and you are with this woman, you can grab her hand and tell her that you are going to get some drinks and some eats. If she wants, she could come along.

 If she accepts, hold her hand and go get the eats while you crack jokes with her and tease her about how good a couple both of you could be. 

3. Go on a real date 

The fact is that you cannot hide your feelings forever, you will need to tell this woman the truth, nothing but the absolute truth. 

 You will now need to take this woman on  a real date and confess your undying love to her.  If she rejects you, move on and keep her as a friend. Good luck.