LOVE AND DESIRE

By Matata Mercy 

What does it mean to love something or desire something? When you desire something does it mean that you actually love that thing or it actually means something else instead.

 

 

 Loving something actually means that you adore it and desiring something means that you want it but you have not yet fallen in love with it. If you love music it means that you enjoy listening to music and it is something that you would listen to without anyone stopping you from it. 

This actually means that you love music and enjoy it to the fullest but if you desire music it means that you have not yet had any exposure to music and therefore you are not even sure whether you will love it or not.

 For the case of relationships, if you love a woman then it means that you are already committed to this woman and will stay with her through hard times and good times. 

What the Bible says in sickness and in health, for  richer and for poor you will always stay together. It does not matter what happens to your partner, you will always be by her side. That is what most people will call true love or unconditional love. 

 Now what about if you desire a woman, when you desire  a woman it simply means that you are not yet in love with her but you do believe that if you actually have her as your partner then you will most likely fall in love with her. 

In other words you are not yet sure whether you and her will actually be compatible enough for both of you to make a good couple. 

So desiring someone does not actually mean that you love that person. It could actually mean that you are lustful.  You are just lusting after her but are actually not in love with her. 

True love does not only look at beauty but it goes beyond what the skin can offer but goes deep into the heart and character of a human being. 

When you desire something, there is a high chance that you might not get what you want but when you love something, the universe will give you the power to work towards what you love so that you can have it all for yourself.

 If you desire to start your own business, there is a high chance that you might not own a business but if you love running businesses, you will most likely  start a business when you are provided with the capital or even if you do not have the capital in place to start the business you love, you will find another way of raising that capital.

 You could may be do some odd jobs out there so that you can be able to raise some money that you can later channel into the business that you love.

 Love will take you many places and very deep until you are able to get what you want but desire is shallow and will only make you to scratch the surface. 

When you truly want to get your hands on something, do not desire it but instead love it. That love that you have for that which you want will push you out of your comfort zone and make you to work harder than you could have ever imagined. 

What would you love to have?  A good and loving relationship or lots of money in your bank account. 

If you want to get lots of money then you should first things first love money, or at least have the love for something that can help you make money. 

That love will push you to work hard towards your goal of making money. Love truly conquers all. Choose love over desire and you will progress in all your endeavors and goals.