By Matata Mercy
When i was young, i was told to always be kind to other people, most of the people that taught me said that being kind to other people will make us worth living on earth and unkindness cannot be tolerated in this world.
Being kind to others is not bad, it is actually a good gesture and you need to actually care about others if you are human being to cares so much about humanity as a whole.
There is one thing that we do forget about this equation, and that is the fact that we do care so much about other people but we in the end actually do forget about ourselves.
Why be kind to other people when you cannot actually be kind to yourself?
Society might tell you what they want you to do but will you keep being unhappy when others are not actually playing their own role of actually also being kind to you. I do think that each and everyone of us is responsible for our own happiness.
If you are always being kind to people who are always acting very rude to you and don't seem to have any kind words for you, how are you going to deal with them?
In my own opinion it would be far much better for you to kick such people out of your life before they completely ruin your life.
Leave them behind and move on, you will be able to find people who actually are truly kind and also do care about you.
You cannot be happy if you are not kind to yourself, if you are treating yourself well and are not chasing your desires actively how then can you actually be able experience happiness in your life.
One way of being kind to yourself is to commit yourself to doing something good for yourself each everyday.
It could just be something small like buying for yourself the nice food from a restaurant that you have always wanted to visit or even buying for yourself that nice t-shirt or pair of jeans that do make you feel comfortable in your own skin.
Being kind to yourself also means being able to forgive yourself when you make mistakes and be willing to move on. Sometimes we judge ourselves for making mistakes and dwell on that mistake instead of actually moving on to other things out there.
Being Kind to yourself means chasing your desires and passions actively and ensuring that you are doing each and everything possible to help you to be able to achieve your goals and dreams.
if you would like to start a business, please be kind enough to kick off that business that will make you happy and keep you fulfilled.
Being kind also means that you stop your bad habits like smoking, alcoholism and addiction to pornography.
If you can just stop smoking, you are making your body more healthy and looking better. You are also saving some amount of money in the longrun making you richer.
I therefore urge you to do each and everything in your power to help you to be as kind to yourself as you can.
When i was young, i was told to always be kind to other people, most of the people that taught me said that being kind to other people will make us worth living on earth and unkindness cannot be tolerated in this world.
Being kind to others is not bad, it is actually a good gesture and you need to actually care about others if you are human being to cares so much about humanity as a whole.
There is one thing that we do forget about this equation, and that is the fact that we do care so much about other people but we in the end actually do forget about ourselves.
Why be kind to other people when you cannot actually be kind to yourself?
Society might tell you what they want you to do but will you keep being unhappy when others are not actually playing their own role of actually also being kind to you. I do think that each and everyone of us is responsible for our own happiness.
If you are always being kind to people who are always acting very rude to you and don't seem to have any kind words for you, how are you going to deal with them?
In my own opinion it would be far much better for you to kick such people out of your life before they completely ruin your life.
Leave them behind and move on, you will be able to find people who actually are truly kind and also do care about you.
You cannot be happy if you are not kind to yourself, if you are treating yourself well and are not chasing your desires actively how then can you actually be able experience happiness in your life.
One way of being kind to yourself is to commit yourself to doing something good for yourself each everyday.
It could just be something small like buying for yourself the nice food from a restaurant that you have always wanted to visit or even buying for yourself that nice t-shirt or pair of jeans that do make you feel comfortable in your own skin.
Being kind to yourself also means being able to forgive yourself when you make mistakes and be willing to move on. Sometimes we judge ourselves for making mistakes and dwell on that mistake instead of actually moving on to other things out there.
Being Kind to yourself means chasing your desires and passions actively and ensuring that you are doing each and everything possible to help you to be able to achieve your goals and dreams.
if you would like to start a business, please be kind enough to kick off that business that will make you happy and keep you fulfilled.
Being kind also means that you stop your bad habits like smoking, alcoholism and addiction to pornography.
If you can just stop smoking, you are making your body more healthy and looking better. You are also saving some amount of money in the longrun making you richer.
I therefore urge you to do each and everything in your power to help you to be as kind to yourself as you can.
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