By Matata Mercy
When i talk of commitment what really comes into your mind? There are many people out there who fear commitment and would feel like fleeing when they are told to commit to something.
If a man and woman claim to be in a relationship but the man himself is doing each and everything to avoid a wedding or marriage itself, then it means that he is fearing commitment and doesnot want to get attached to only one woman.
If you are a woman out there and your man is playing hide and seek with you when you talk about marriage and kids, then you know that this man is either not interested in the marriage as a whole or he could be fearing responsibilities that come with getting married.
Commitment is a very big responsibility and if you ar going to commit to something be it relationship, career, friendship, or any other thing then you should be ready to face the challenges involved in it and be ready to keep at it when things get tough and problems start showing up before you.
People who succeed in relationships, careers are those who are willing to commit to something or that which they have chosen to work on and most people who fail in life are those who keep dabbling in life. These are people who start a career today and then after a few weeks or a month, they give up and then start doing something else.
They keep jumping from one career to another and before they know it time has gone and they have nothing to show for their hardwork. If you are going to succeed in your career, then you will need to commit to doing and focus on it fully.
I have chosen to fully commit to blogging and this is something that i will be doing for a very long, long time and i do not know how many years i will spend doing it but i know i will keep doing it as long as i can.
It is not about the money but about the love and passion that i do have for writing.It is something i can do even if i do not make any money.
If you are going to commit to career it should be something that you are very passionate about, something that you love doing and something that you are willing to do even if you are not paid a single coin.
Most people do not commit to certain things like career or relationships simply because they do not like what they are doing and therefore they burn out quickly and move on.
I urge you to commit to something, it could be a career, or a relationship if you truly want to acheive success in that area of your life but ensure that you commit to something that you love, other wise you will just be dabbling in life.
It's time for you to take your life seriously and start taking some serious steps towards commitment so that you can achieve your goals and dreams in life.
When i talk of commitment what really comes into your mind? There are many people out there who fear commitment and would feel like fleeing when they are told to commit to something.
If a man and woman claim to be in a relationship but the man himself is doing each and everything to avoid a wedding or marriage itself, then it means that he is fearing commitment and doesnot want to get attached to only one woman.
If you are a woman out there and your man is playing hide and seek with you when you talk about marriage and kids, then you know that this man is either not interested in the marriage as a whole or he could be fearing responsibilities that come with getting married.
Commitment is a very big responsibility and if you ar going to commit to something be it relationship, career, friendship, or any other thing then you should be ready to face the challenges involved in it and be ready to keep at it when things get tough and problems start showing up before you.
People who succeed in relationships, careers are those who are willing to commit to something or that which they have chosen to work on and most people who fail in life are those who keep dabbling in life. These are people who start a career today and then after a few weeks or a month, they give up and then start doing something else.
They keep jumping from one career to another and before they know it time has gone and they have nothing to show for their hardwork. If you are going to succeed in your career, then you will need to commit to doing and focus on it fully.
I have chosen to fully commit to blogging and this is something that i will be doing for a very long, long time and i do not know how many years i will spend doing it but i know i will keep doing it as long as i can.
It is not about the money but about the love and passion that i do have for writing.It is something i can do even if i do not make any money.
If you are going to commit to career it should be something that you are very passionate about, something that you love doing and something that you are willing to do even if you are not paid a single coin.
Most people do not commit to certain things like career or relationships simply because they do not like what they are doing and therefore they burn out quickly and move on.
I urge you to commit to something, it could be a career, or a relationship if you truly want to acheive success in that area of your life but ensure that you commit to something that you love, other wise you will just be dabbling in life.
It's time for you to take your life seriously and start taking some serious steps towards commitment so that you can achieve your goals and dreams in life.
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