By Matata Mercy
Sometimes life gets hard and you feel like giving up and letting go of everything in your life. When you find yourself in debt and jobless with no one to turn to life looks like hell on earth.
But what most of us who are going through such challenges do not actually know is the fact that there are actually certain things that do happen to us within our life that give us signs that we can actually make it in life.
These are things that can give you a clue that you can become successful even if life looks to be terrible right now.
Today, i would like to look at some of the signs that show you that you can actually turn your life around and become a better human being who is successful.
1. You have realized that you are hanging out with the wrong people
When all of a sudden you realize that you are hanging out with the wrong people who are not inspiring and seem not to have any goals in life then you know that you can actually turn your life around and make it better.
It is common knowledge that we are always influenced by the people that we do spend most of our time with.
It is very painful to discover that the people who are responsible for your stunted growth are people who are actually very close to you and it hurts alot.
Wrong people will always have the behaviour of complaining all the time and love gossiping about other people.
2. You realize that you are not doing what you are supposed to do
After some years and going through all the basic requirements of life, you discover that you are not actually doing what motivates and inspires you to live fully.
When you get to that moment, then you realize that you can actually turn around your life.
Discovering that you are not doing the things that bring the best out of you, in terms of your skills, talents and passion this means that you are not doing the best that you can for yourself and others at large.
This kind of thing gives you the hope that you can actually be able to turn your life around.
3. When you come to terms with the lies around your world
In today's world of socialmedia, life seems to look like a fairy tale.
When you hear about the over night successes from what the media portrays, you will think and believe that all you need to do is go to bed and wake up at the time when you have achieved all your dreams and are living the life that you deserve.
One time you wake up and realise that you are actually not doing as well as you thought.
Then it dawns on you that the unpopular things like hardwork, persevarence, patience are the ones that actually bring the real success not what some media out there portrays.
That fairytale is truly a lie and doesnot work in the real world.
4. You believe that you can start by taking small steps
When you believe that it is very possible for you to take small steps each and everyday towards your goals, then you are very capable of turning around your life even if it seems to be impossible.
You may have gone through alot of shame and things did happen in your life that you feel have killed your dream life but if you feel that you can do something small about it then you can get there with time.
At this point in time, you should embarrass yourself by living with your parents for sometime and then you should start waking up early and sleeping late in the night.
You can apply for that temporary job while you are busy trying to figure out things. This is when you will realise that you actually do not have any reason why you should not be able to achieve your goals.
That internal conflict that has been burning inside you will forever disappear and never be seen again.
You are ready to start taking steps towards the life that you deserve to live and you can live that life just take the first step by starting today.
Sometimes life gets hard and you feel like giving up and letting go of everything in your life. When you find yourself in debt and jobless with no one to turn to life looks like hell on earth.
But what most of us who are going through such challenges do not actually know is the fact that there are actually certain things that do happen to us within our life that give us signs that we can actually make it in life.
These are things that can give you a clue that you can become successful even if life looks to be terrible right now.
Today, i would like to look at some of the signs that show you that you can actually turn your life around and become a better human being who is successful.
1. You have realized that you are hanging out with the wrong people
When all of a sudden you realize that you are hanging out with the wrong people who are not inspiring and seem not to have any goals in life then you know that you can actually turn your life around and make it better.
It is common knowledge that we are always influenced by the people that we do spend most of our time with.
It is very painful to discover that the people who are responsible for your stunted growth are people who are actually very close to you and it hurts alot.
Wrong people will always have the behaviour of complaining all the time and love gossiping about other people.
2. You realize that you are not doing what you are supposed to do
After some years and going through all the basic requirements of life, you discover that you are not actually doing what motivates and inspires you to live fully.
When you get to that moment, then you realize that you can actually turn around your life.
Discovering that you are not doing the things that bring the best out of you, in terms of your skills, talents and passion this means that you are not doing the best that you can for yourself and others at large.
This kind of thing gives you the hope that you can actually be able to turn your life around.
3. When you come to terms with the lies around your world
In today's world of socialmedia, life seems to look like a fairy tale.
When you hear about the over night successes from what the media portrays, you will think and believe that all you need to do is go to bed and wake up at the time when you have achieved all your dreams and are living the life that you deserve.
One time you wake up and realise that you are actually not doing as well as you thought.
Then it dawns on you that the unpopular things like hardwork, persevarence, patience are the ones that actually bring the real success not what some media out there portrays.
That fairytale is truly a lie and doesnot work in the real world.
4. You believe that you can start by taking small steps
When you believe that it is very possible for you to take small steps each and everyday towards your goals, then you are very capable of turning around your life even if it seems to be impossible.
You may have gone through alot of shame and things did happen in your life that you feel have killed your dream life but if you feel that you can do something small about it then you can get there with time.
At this point in time, you should embarrass yourself by living with your parents for sometime and then you should start waking up early and sleeping late in the night.
You can apply for that temporary job while you are busy trying to figure out things. This is when you will realise that you actually do not have any reason why you should not be able to achieve your goals.
That internal conflict that has been burning inside you will forever disappear and never be seen again.
You are ready to start taking steps towards the life that you deserve to live and you can live that life just take the first step by starting today.
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