WHY YOU SHOULD LOOK AT CHALLENGES AS GIFTS?

Most times we look at challenges as our enemies or things that are out there to actually pull us down and make us feel very bad about ourselves.

 But what if you looked at the positive side of the challenges that you do encounter in your life? 

What things would you learn and what things would you gain from these challenges that you come into contact with during your struggles in life? 

When we feel we are defeated, that is when we start throwing around the blames on other people as the reason why we actually did not succeed or why we did not live up to our potentials in life. 

If we change our mindset and start looking at these challenges as opportunities for us to grow as human beings who have a mission in this world, we will start becoming better at what we do simply because we will have adopted the growth oriented mindset which all about learning new things and improving on the things that we have accomplished in our lives. 

if we can develop the growth mindset in ourselves, we will learn to accept responsibilities for the things that did happen to us in the past and also we shall stop blaming other people for making us not to reach our potentials in life.  

If we would like to move forward in life, we will need to gain wisdom and the only way we can fully gain wisdom is to accept the responsibilities for our own problems and also responsibilities for the things that did happen to us in the past. 

If we have gained the wisdom to do this, we will then be able to free ourselves from all those problems and this will help us move forward towards a bigger and brighter future that we do choose for ourselves. 

We should never again blame the people around us like our parents, our siblings and even our teachers for the things that did happen to us in this present situation. 

We should never put the blame on our bosses or fellow employees for the things that go wrong in our lives.  

We do have the power within ourselves to change our destiny in life.  A lack of education or being born in a poor family should never be an excuse for us to become failures in life. 

We have been able to see people who come from poor family backgrounds become billionaires.  All these thoughts about failures and successes are in our minds.  All we need to do is to work on our mindsets so that we can be able to change our physical environment. 

When out mindsets change, then our physical environments will also start changing and ultimately our lives will change. 

These uncontrollable forces like your boss, your family background, the genetics should not be allowed to become our obstacles to success in life. We should never let our histories control our destinies in life. 

You are responsible for your success in life. You are where you are today mentally, physically, spiritually, emotionally and also financially simply because of your thoughts. 

Today, you should begin the process of bringing a change to where you are mentally, physically, emotionally and also financially by changing your thoughts. You should develop constructive thoughts and in addition you should also avoid those thoughts that are destructive.

 Our minds should reside in the solutions of the future problems. We should never let our minds dwell in the problems that we did face in the past. 

You should always seek the company of people who are working hard to bring positive changes around the world. 

You should avoid comfort by avoiding people who are looking for comfort in the world or people who have made a decision to remain comfortable for the rest of their lives. 

When you are faced with the opportunity to make decisions, you should always be able to make a choice; the decisions we make in life might not turn out to be right decisions but at least we do have the ability to choose. In the long run we can make those wrong decisions to become the right decisions that we did make for ourselves. You should not allow your emotions to control your paths in life.  

When you do make a decision in life, you should be willing to stand behind that decision irrespective of the obstacles that you do encounter on your way to success. 

You should ensure that all your energy is channelled into the process of decision making and you should not waste any of your energy on second thoughts about the decisions that you have actually made about your life. 

Your life should never be an apology but your life should be lived as a statement.