HOW WHITE WOMEN CAN DATE UGANDAN MEN AND THE THINGS THAT THEY SHOULD TAKE INTO CONSIDERATION

There is one thing that struck me when I did arrive in Uganda on my first holiday. 

The people in Uganda are very welcoming and also very charming at that especially the men in this country found in East Africa. 

The idea of interracial relationships can be very intriguing and also at the sametime very exciting. 

When I first left Europe from my home country in German, I did not anticipate this kind of attention from the men in this country.  

One thing that actually did shock me was the marriage offer I did get from one Ugandan man who had just met me there for a few hours after I had jumped off the plane from the Entebbe airport. 

That is how shocking a life time decision can be made in Uganda.   I did not take him seriously of course, there is no woman who can actually take such a man seriously.  

Some of these men could just be looking for some fun and also enjoy the muzungu life or others are just interested in showing off to their friends that trophy that they have won inform of a White woman.

 If you happen to find yourself falling in love with a Ugandan man when you do arrive in this country, today I will narrate to you some of the things that you should be aware of when you have fallen in love with a Ugandan man.  

The truth of the matter is that Ugandan men are very handsome and also they can be very charming and they can easily sweep you off your feet but you will have to know some things in advance before you can actually involve yourself in such kind of a relationship.

 Ugandan men will always tell women what they actually want to hear. 

These men will promise heaven on earth but you should just make sure that you do not actually take them seriously. 

Here are things that some of the Ugandan men will not tell you when you start dating them that you should actually take note of.

1. Some of these Ugandan men are already married

The truth of the matter is that some of these Ugandan men are already married and all that they are looking for is some fun with a muzungu or white women as they are called here.  

Some of these men have their spouses back at home but they would love enjoy and have some fun with white women and experience the feeling of dating a white woman. 

So if this man is promising you heaven on earth, you will need to be careful and take a second look at what he actually is telling you. 

Make sure that you do analyse what this man is saying before you can actually take him seriously. But I would advise you not to take him seriously, all you need to do is just enjoy the moment while it lasts. 

For the last four years I have lived in Uganda, I have been promised more marriage proposals than I ever received in my entire life. 

One man promised to build me a house overlooking the shores of Lake Victoria. While another man promised to give me state house if I just accepted his proposal. 

One proposal that took away my breath was one man promised to build a boat house for me to live on Lake Victoria. 

I can’t just imagine that fantasy of waking up every morning seeing water all over the place, very amazing creative people here in Uganda.

2. Some of these men are already living with someone else

You will be shocked to discover one time that some of these men are already with another woman with whom they may actually not even be married legally. 

These people may just be cohabiting and on top of that they may actually want to add  you into their life also. 

When you do ask some of these men to take you back to their homes, they will try to avoid you going to their homes simply because they know that there is someone there whom you will not want to come in contact with. 

You should make sure that you actually do not take them seriously, although some of these men may truly want a relationship with you.

3. The Ugandan man may be a father of many children

It is not news actually in Uganda for a man to have very many children out there. 

A man having very many children is a very common occurrence in Uganda and there is a saying in local Luganda Language in Buganda that says that man’s children are never counted.

 For my white women out there who are planning to date Ugandan men, you will need to know that your man might actually be a father of very many children who may be as many as ten children. 

You will need to have the courage to tolerate him if your relationship with him is to actually last longer than to expected. 

One man whom I dated in Uganda shocked me when I later discovered that he had fathered five children from different women without my knowledge. 

That is the drama you will encounter if you do date some of the Ugandan men out there.

4. The Ugandan man may simultaneously be dating many other women

In Africa, polygamy is admired and it is not strange to find one man having more than one woman as his wife. 

So for that adventurous white woman out there who is planning to have some good relationship with a Ugandan man, you will need to get used to a man who could be dating more than one woman at the same time. 

This man could be seducing you to enter into what is literally called his ‘farm’ of women. 

If you are the kind of person who is jealousy, your relationship might just end before it even gets started.

 This is one reality that is common among Ugandan men from my own experiences that I have had in this beautiful country which was called the pearl of Africa by Winston Church hill. 

All the four scenarios that I have outlined here could just happen at the same time. 

So for my white women out there who are looking for Mr. Right down here in this African country called Uganda, you will need to take some of these things seriously.

 The best way to enjoy your stay in this country is not to take any of the things that these men tell you seriously.

 I know we white women love attention and if you are getting a lot of attention from some of these men, you will need to enjoy it while it lasts. One thing is that some of these men are looking for women who can actually foot their bills.

 Don’t get shocked to find out that this man is asking you to pay his bills when you do go out to have some fun or when you go on a date. 

Some of these Ugandan men will turn you into their bank accounts. Which woman will do that? Well, I do not know. 

For all the white women who are coming for holidays and vacations in Uganda, these are things you should take note of and ensure that you do enjoy the experience to the maximum while it does last.