We all want to get better in life and most times we feel like failures
in life and we end up lost in life.
There are things that we can actually do
that can help change our situations in life for the better.
All we need to do
is to gain the courage to put in some little effort so that we are able to push
against all the obstacles that we do encounter on our way to our dreams.
It is
very possible to change your life in the next six months if you truly want to
achieve a major transformation in your life.
Today, I will talk about how you can actually change your life in the
next six months if you want to become a better human being.
Here are some of
the things that you can actually do so that you are able to change your life in
the next six months.
1. You should
learn to confront your fears
One thing that does hold us back from becoming successful in life is our
tendency to always avoid confronting our fears.
We all have different fears in
our lives. I do fear ending up poor and homeless and that is one of my major
fears that always keeps me awake and it even wakes me up very early in the
morning to go and work on my dreams.
You will never be able to change your life
if you are not able to confront your fears head-on.
One thing you should do is to write down your
fears and then you will realise that actually this fear was just an illusion
and this illusion is just created by your mind and thoughts that come out of
it. In actual sense what you are fearing does not even exist in the real world
you live in.
The knowledge that your fear does not actually exist will give you
the courage to chase your dreams. If you can conquer your fears, in the next
six months you will be able to change your life or you will be in a better
position.
2. You should
stop giving a damn about certain things
Sometimes we do carry around a lot of garbage with us.
There are things
in our life that we should actually throw away and move on to better things
that can add value into our lives.
Sometimes we mind so much about things like
what other people will think when we do certain things, what other people think
about our dress code, where we live and why we sold our car.
In order to be in a position where you can
completely change your life, you will need to stop reacting to some of these
things and instead focus on things that will make your dreams come true.
Instead focusing on things that do not matter, we should reserve our energies
for things that will add value into our lives and make us better humans.
3. You should
reduce everything in your life
If you are going to move forward in life, you will need to reduce
everything that you do have in your life instead of adding more things in your
life.
When you really want to change your life, you will need to reduce very
many things in your life. You will need to reduce the time that you spend
watching movies and series on Netflix.
Reduce the time you do spend on Facebook
updating your status and profile. You will also need to reduce the belongings
that you do own. You will also need to reduce your expenses to a very small
amount monthly.
This will give you enough resources that you can invest in
things that will take you next to your dream.
Many of us out there have very
many things that are in our possession and these things are sucking up the
valuable time that we would actually use to improve ourselves and also chase
our dreams and goals.
4. You choose
something that you are going to achieve
If you want to achieve something that you want in life, you will need to
avoid overloading yourself with very many things.
Do not choose very many
things to do at the same time. You should start concentrating on doing only one
thing and not 10 things at once.
If you can choose something that you truly
want to achieve in the next six months and then you concentrate all your
energies and time on that one thing, you will most likely achieve something
great in your life and your life will most likely improve and become better
with time.
5. You should
start reading a lot of books
One way in which you will be able to improve and change your life for
the better is by reading a lot of books.
If you want to solve a problem that
you have been facing, all you need to do is to look for books that can help you
in solving that problem. For example if
you want to start a company, you can start by reading a book called The Lean
Start up.
You will learn how to run a
start-up and you will be able to build a successful company with time. Books
will change your life and make you become a better human being.
6. You should
commit to discipline
If you are going to become successful in changing your life, you will
need to develop the discipline to commit to changing your life for the better
in the long run.
If you have been smoking, you should be working on the
discipline that will help you quit smoking. You can do this by reducing the
number of cigarettes that you do smoke in a day.
If you have plans to quit drinking alcohol,
you will need to commit to reducing the number of bottles that you do take in a
day and in the long run, you will be able to quit alcohol for good.
7. You should
discover the why for your life
If you want to change your life in the next few months, you will need to
know why you deserve to live and why your life is so important. In simple
terms, you will need to have the purpose for your existence on earth.
When you
are able to discover your life purpose, this will push you to achieving your
goals. If you do not know the reason why you do exist, it will be difficult for
you to move forward in life.
You will need to know the things that you do value
in life and also you will need to know what to do in order to get to the most
important goals in your life.
In order for you to be able to know your why, you
will need to start somewhere; step by step you will one day discover your
reason for your existence.
8. You should forget about what other people do
think about you
If you are going to succeed in changing your life, you should forget
about what other people are saying and instead focus on things that can improve
your life. People will always keep talking whether you become poor and become
rich, they will never stop.
You should just get used to them and instead focus
your energies on things that will improve your life and change it for the
better.
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